MONDAYS WITH KERRI
We have looked at Genesis chapter three repeatedly because it recounts the entrance of deception, shame, and fear into our world. It also paints a clear picture of what happens when we as women are not covered in the way God intended. We are not only tempted in the same way The Betrayer tempted Adam and Eve, we are also suffering from the same manifestations of sin every time we eat the forbidden fruit in our lives. When Eve was tempted by the serpent, she was vulnerable because she had not heard directly from God as Adam did. So, when the enemy lied to her, doubt entered her mind for the first time. Suddenly, the question, “If God loves me why does He not want me to have this apple?” flashed through her head. She believed God was withholding something good from her; therefore, she justified her sin.
Eve chose to respond to temptation in her flesh; so instead of heeding God’s warning and receiving His covering and protection, she took what she wanted. Verse six says, “The woman was convinced. The fruit looked so fresh and delicious, and it would make her so wise! So she ate some of the fruit. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her. Then he ate it, too.” The enemy offered Eve the one thing that we as women want most–control. And in our fear–in a place of not feeling safe-we choose to manipulate our circumstances. We attempt to control our lives instead of allowing ourselves to be covered by The One who created us. In our flesh we seek to take control that does not belong to us, but men will do just the opposite. A man’s flesh will reveal itself in not taking the responsibility that is his. Just as Adam stood by and did nothing (even though he had heard directly from God), men today will not cover a woman if they are operating in deception. When women are willing to give up control and men are willing to take responsibility; it is the manifestation and expression of love through the Holy Spirit. Fear is kept at bay and we as women can feel safe to receive, respond, and reciprocate in our relationships.
God’s plan for Adam to watch over and care for Eve was not adhered to that day when they were tempted in the garden. Adam had heard directly from God; therefore, he should have stepped in to “cover her” as she engaged the serpent. However, he stepped out from under God’s covering and, as a result; he was unable to protect Eve the moment the enemy came slithering up. The brokenness that occurred in their relationship was twofold. Eve attempted to take and exert control that was not hers to take, and Adam failed to take the responsibility that did belong to him. Both actions manifested in the severance of their mutual trust and protection. They failed to cover each other the moment they operated outside of their created design. In this way they were both responsible.
Our enemy seeks to sabotage us in the same way today. He knows if he perverts twists or distorts the Truth of God’s Word in any way, it is not truth at all. He offers his lies to us and we are rendered easy prey if we attempt to operate under his deception. When we step out from under the protection of our Heavenly Father, we can neither give nor receive the covering He designed His body to operate in. Adam and Eve ran in fear to cover their shame the moment they realized they were naked. In their sin they chose to walk out from under the Father’s covering and attempted to create their own.
You and I are faced with the same challenge. Often, we take control of our circumstances instead of submitting to The Father’s love and the truth that He will protect, provide, and cover us. Our Heavenly Father knew we would always be tempted to take control of our lives, so He sent His son Jesus to cover our sin and guilt. Our enemy knows this truth, so to keep us from our covering, he convinces us to run from it. Just like Adam and Eve, we step out from under our Father’s protection when we choose to hide from Him in shame.
Our relationships here on earth always mirror our relationship with our Heavenly Father. When we refuse to allow Him to cover us, we will experience brokenness in all our relationships. Without Him we are separated from our source of power and love. True covering will always come from The One who created us. Psalm 91:1-4 says: